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An Educational Guide for Adults is a safe and accessible program that addresses sexual wellness and the use of adult toys for adults.
Many people still find it difficult to talk about sexual wellness, even with their doctor. But it's a valid component of general fitness just like sleep, nutrition or fitness. Written for adults to provide a clear, medically correct picture of the role of adult toys in sexual wellness and when a sex talk with a doctor is the better course of action. The purpose here is education, not the promotion of any product and/or brand.
Sexual wellness is physical, emotional and relational comfort related to one's sexuality. It involves feeling safe in your body, being able to talk freely with the partner, and feeling free to have intimacy without pain, anxiety or the sense of shame. Sexual wellness goes beyond bedroom. It becomes linked to self-esteem, stress, and general health and wellness in a relationship. This is an aspect of sexual health that must not be overlooked, whether you're a man or a woman.
Adult toys are items that can be utilized to improve physical pleasure or support certain sexual wellness targets, utilized by people or couples. They can be useful in discovering intimacy, overcoming some of the physical challenges, or just spicing up a healthy sex life.
One common misconception is that adult toys are a sign of a relationship issue – or that they can be a substitute for a partner. Neither is accurate. The majority of couples who utilize sexual wellness products say that it is utilized as a enhancement to intimacy, and not as a replacement. Equally as important to know what these products are not able to do. They are not meant to be a substitute for medical treatment, nor will they cure chronic pain, hormone imbalance, or any other medical condition that may be causing a problem. If so, it is vital to get a proper medical evaluation.
In certain circumstances, adult toys, when employed wisely, can really promote sexual well-being:
Safety is of paramount importance if someone decides to use adult toys.
Material and Manufacturing
Look for body-safe materials such as medical-grade silicone, and avoid porous materials that can harbour bacteria over time. Purchase from a reputable manufacturer or retailer that will provide information on the materials used.
Hygiene and Cleaning
Follow manufacturer's instructions to clean products before and after use. Cleaning is the same here as with any other object that contacts the body, to help reduce risk of infection.
Storage
Keep in a clean, dry area (preferably a pouch or container) out of the sun and extreme temperatures.
What to Avoid
Never use unregulated or unbranded products of unknown content and never use personal items between partners without proper protection.
When to see a doctor?
Certain symptoms should not be just covered up with a product. Consult a physician if you endure ongoing pain during sex, an erectile dysfunction or loss of sexual drive, unexpected loss of sexual drive, or failure to achieve orgasm despite sufficient stimulation or if you are keeping tension in your marriage relationship related to sex. These may indicate a hormonal, vascular, psychological or relational etiology that needs to be addressed appropriately, not by self-management.
Myth: Adult toys are not a sign of a troubled relationship.
Fact: They are used by the majority of couples and they say they are used as an intimate experience between couples, and not as a problem.
Myth: They are not a substitute for medical treatments for sexual dysfunction.
Fact: They may provide support, but issues such as erectile dysfunction or painful intercourse require a correct diagnosis and treatment.
Myth: Myths about adult toys are plentiful, with many people believing that they are only meant for single individuals.
Fact: Many couples utilize them together as part of a wholesome, connecting sex life.
Myth: No product is unsafe.
Fact: There is a wide variation in materials and the body-friendly, sanitary options are important to good health.
Myth: It is not okay to discuss this with a doctor.
Fact: Sex is a medical issue and a physician is a trained professional who can speak about sex professionally and without judgment.
Sexual wellness should be treated like any other aspect of health. It's OK to look for comfort, connection, or some plain old answers to a worry that's impacting your life. When you feel it's not right, if it's pain, low libido or intimacy issues, you should talk with an experienced doctor, for example one who is very experienced with sexual health and has the time to listen.
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